Feel Better


As we navigate the course of our lives, we often find ourselves operating under a societal model of success. This commonly involves pursuing traits such as competence, efficiency, and material success. However, we must realize that this construct represents only a fraction of our true human potential. Rather than merely conforming to this model, we are capable of embodying our unique skills and abilities, regardless of societal influences.

This leads us to an alternative concept of success—one that aligns more closely with our authentic selves, or what we can metaphorically call our ‘pearl’. The ‘pearl’ represents our intrinsic qualities, skills, and capabilities. It doesn’t just mirror societal norms but surpasses them, reflecting our genuine human essence.

To get closer to this form of success, we can start by acknowledging our inherent abilities. We can question and reflect on our motives—do we act out of genuine interest and passion, or merely to fit into societal norms? By recognizing our unique talents and skills, we can then consciously choose to pursue what genuinely resonates with us.

Another practice involves cultivating our capacity for authentic relationships. Are we able to connect with others genuinely? Do we consider others as unique individuals, or just as tools for our success? By cultivating authentic relationships, we can better understand ourselves and others, enriching our personal growth journey.

Lastly, the path to this ‘pearl’ involves nurturing our capacity for effective functionality in all areas of life—not just in achieving outward societal success. This includes our abilities to interact genuinely with others, to make informed decisions, and to contribute positively to society. By enhancing our overall functionality, we embody the essence of the ‘pearl’, moving closer to genuine success.

As we progressively align with our ‘pearl’, we might also experience moments of discomfort and emptiness. This is a natural part of the process, as we let go of our ingrained societal conditioning. By embracing this emptiness as a form of truth, we make room for our true selves to emerge, maturing into our genuine human essence.

Remember, this journey is not a sprint, but a marathon. It requires continuous growth, reflection, and understanding of our life experiences. By actively engaging in these practices, we can gradually nurture and mature our ‘pearl’, attaining true success as authentic human beings.